Was with the significant other ("SFO") at some hot and trendy establishments last night. She looked good no doubt...but so did almost every other chick dressed in hot pants, halter tops or skin tight hip-hugging jeans.

This City is just not conducive to remaining faithful...there are too many distractions, too many hot woman, too much time and way too much opportunity. It almost seems like an exercise in futility to even try staying faithful.

I noticed one girl eying me as I was bumping and grinding with the SFO on the dance floor. She must have known that I was attached given how we were dancing and by the rock that was clearly visible on the SFO's finger. It was so packed and so hot, that you could see sweat dripping onto the dance floor. But everyone seemed real blitzed and didn't give a shit anyway.

The mutual smiles and stares continued for several songs and she finally came over sometime later after she saw the SFO go to the bathroom. With the amount of people there, and the line to the women's bathroom, it would take her a long while to get back. We had a brief talk, I told her that I was attached, but she gave me her number anyway. She had a smoking body and a cute face...I knew I had to follow up.

Guilt, you may ask?...that line was crossed a long time ago and it fades fast. The CS will call her this week.

So lets evaluate this..."marriage equals: sleeping with one person for the rest of your life?" Nevermind that your told to make new connections-- meet new people--whether its for business or social purposes, in every other part of your life.

No, for this great endeavor we are suppose to unite with one person forever. Really? How successful a recipe does that sound like for any other of our other relationships? Cling on to just one business client do we? Or to just one friend? No...we wouldn't dare do that. Ah...but...sleep with someone outside the marriage...thats a no...no..

I just dont think so.... This is Cheating Spouses'("CS"). You'll be let into every aspect and detail of it.