Men vs. Women--The Cheating Ways


For ages, sexual conquest has been encouraged in men and condemned in woman. Increasingly though, the lines are beginning to blur and women are now staking their righteous claim to as much "male ass" as they so desire.

Women are cheating for many of the same reasons as men. And although people who are unhappy in their marriages may cheat, lets remember that not all those who cheat are unhappy in their marriages. Please lets not confuse the two...one does not necessarily equal the other, despite what proponents of strict monogamy would have you believe.

So, plenty of woman are cheating for purely physical reasons, as do many men. Monogamy is even more suspect, however, when you consider that many women feel that it is ok to maintain emotional intimacy with another man, yet forego the physical intimacy. What kinda shit is this?!

The CS has been involved in situations where either a single or married woman desired to maintain a deep and on going emotional bond. This would begin first with frequent meetings and flirting, and then progress to kissing and discussions of emotional and sensitive subjects. Yet these women would hesitate at sex because of the implications from either my marriage or theirs. One wonders though: if you feel that sex outside of marriage is wrong, then how can you feel that having and wanting such a deep emotional bond with another man is right? Isnt that also something that is suppose to be sacred between husband and wife? And even if a women doesnt think that its entirely ok, arent they as susceptible to that as a man is to the ass of a "girl's gone wild" protege?

I have not figured out why these type of woman think the emotional aspect is acceptable but the physical isnt. if one is engaged in such behavior, and assuming there is a physical attraction, shouldnt she also succumb to the physical? Perhaps it is the differernt "wiring" that we have as men and woman. Or, perhaps it's the ingrained social condemnation that women fear should they choose to succumb.

But these woman must understand that they're are not doing themselves or anyone else any favors by foregoing the physical and proceeding with the desire for an intense emotional relationship instead. Can this behavior be defined as anything less than cheating? Is it any better than just fucking your brains out first and then having a deep discussion? Yes...you say?! Really?? Well if the emotional is what many women want first, and the sex is what many guys want first, then couldnt a guy similarly justify his behavior by saying that he just had a purely physical fuck without any emotional discussions or involvement? Is there any difference? Isnt it just cheating defined in different ways?

Why the different approach by the sexes... I cant exactly tell. But arent we just kidding ourselves here??? If we analyze the form and frequency "cheating" takes on today, doesnt it indicate that strict monogamy doesnt work? That one person generally doesnt satisfy all of your sexual or emotional needs, depending on which sex your are and certain other factors. The CS thinks so...what do you think?